Esther Perel’s Intimacy Inventory Question 5

It's all about the touch baby. Tuesday Unleashing the Cougar's Eve Lawrence told me about Esther Perel, an expert on relationships and sexuality. When I looked at her site I found a link for an Intimacy Inventory and thought it would be be a valuable thing to work through. The directions say to take a … Continue reading Esther Perel’s Intimacy Inventory Question 5

Gotta slow my roll… feeling ambivalent about Zen Man

Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com I'm beginning to realize this ain't gonna be easy or simple. It's a mess, like life. Tuesday, 3:30 p.m. I think cuffing season and my classes being on winter break and Liberal Marine has been ill and DJ was traveling formed a perfect storm of seeing Zen Man seven times … Continue reading Gotta slow my roll… feeling ambivalent about Zen Man

Broke some of my dating rules: 4 “dates” with Zen Man in a week

What the literal fuck do I want? shrugThursday, 4:44 p.m. I had some "rules" set up for myself to help keep me single. I'm trying to figure this out: -I want to be single (Not "beholden" to anyone, my own woman) -and have sex (Yes I want sex, preferably 2-3 times a week) -with people … Continue reading Broke some of my dating rules: 4 “dates” with Zen Man in a week